Formula of outshining!

Overview

Who am I to define a wise man? Ah, good question! I get remarks on my behaviour from my parents nowadays that my way of talking to others has become somewhat hostile, and I should avoid aggressiveness and should become more polite. I guess this is a problem with almost every teenager, who becomes impatient while dealing with others. 

Being in the same age group, I am now able to understand, where the problem arises. Based on my understanding, I will suggest some kind of tips that may help you to build a super amazing impression of yourself, just like a "wise man". Mind me saying that it actually works! 

So basically, in the upcoming lines, I am gonna define an ideal person, which is in fact nobody! Ah! Hypothetical? Yep! Like the ideal gas laws! Funny enough. But you can be. If you wish to be the same, scroll down.

Communication is the key! 

Coming to the topic, according to me, the first thing is one's way of communicating which creates or spoils one's own image. It defines and builds one's personality. So be careful of what you think, speak, and the way you express yourself. One should have patience, the intelligence of what to say and when to say along with the originality of one, which matters a lot. I've been through many kinds of people who say one-line things in almost 10-15 lines. Trust me, the more precise you say, the more interesting conversation becomes. The second thing is your looks. Yes, your clothing, facial expressions, posture and gestures convey a lot about you, as well as your mindset and the way you think. So you must have to be aware of your as well as your surroundings' appearance, it should be decent, genuine and attractive. Then it comes listening and replying. Always remember that we've got two ears and one mouth so we listen more, and speak less. 

The conversation should never end in an argumentative state. To ensure it, one should listen to the other person's statement interestingly and should cross-question them. This conveys the second person an indirect message that you're interested in talking to them and so, you're curious to know more. Another crucial thing is the correct time to agree or disagree on any idea or advice given to you by others. An ideal person may be right or wrong in his opinion, but he's too clear-headed to be unbiased. If in case there's a conflict of thoughts, a clashing of opinions, or a collision of feelings, then he won't react rudely at the same time; he'll rather be patient and wait for the best opportunity to keep his point of view. 

Defining Gentleman...

So apart from this communication factor, you can say that an ideal person never takes unfair advantage of people for his benefit; From a long-sighted prudence, he observes the maxim of the upcoming situations, and start preparing for the best and the worst, which could ever happen. Then, he also knows the weakness of human reason as well as its strength, its province and its limits. A wise man decides to stay silent instead of murmuring useless things all time. Act of forgiveness is another thing which matters a lot. Remember, the anger of an ideal person is usually expensive and his smiles are inexpensive. I'd never say that an ideal person never gets angry or feels bad and his life always flies on wings etc...No, his life too sucks, problems do come, but along with that, he has a quiet confidence to handle them in a planned way.

So summing up everything, I'll conclude that an ideal person is basically patient, forbearing, and resigned on spiritual principles; he submits to pain because it is inevitable, to sadness and suffering. After all, it is irrecoverable, and to death too, because it is his ultimate destiny...